You HAVE to start telling yourself that you are fucking gorgeous.

Have you ever stood in front of the mirror, looked yourself straight in the eye and said “ (YOUR NAME) YOU ARE FUCKING GORGEOUS, YOU ARE ONE SEXY BITCH!!”.???

If not then I want to ask, why the hell not?!

Although I know the answer to that question…

 It’s big headed, right? It’s vain to tell yourself that you’re a sexy bitch, that you’re a goddess? Only people who love themselves would say such a thing…

It feels wrong, it feels arrogant, plus you just outright don’t believe it, you would be lying to yourself.

Well what the hell is wrong with loving yourself anyway? What is wrong with OWNING who you are, DECIDING that no matter what, you are fucking gorgeous RIGHT NOW.

I personally think it’s outrageous for us women to NOT be telling ourselves that each and every day. To be waiting for our man, our friends, followers on freaking social media to compliment us, to validate us!

You have to start seeing, focusing, dwelling upon your beauty RIGHT NOW. If you can’t find it then look fucking closer.

You get to choose and decide that you are a fucking goddess. You get to make that decision for yourself REGARDLESS of what anyone else might say, think or perceive you to be.

Often we THINK people are thinking horrible things about us when in actual fact they are too busy thinking horrible things about themselves.

Your body, your presence, the way you show up in this world, the way you hold yourself is DIRECTLY related to how fucking gorgeous you think you are. 

Stop looking for confidence, for validation for LOVE outside of yourself. The only person who can really truly give you a long lasting, steady supply of love and security is YOU and when you do…

Watch how your man’s eyes light up when you enter the room, watch how the compliments from onlookers come rolling in “You look radiant” “You’re glowing” “Have you changed your hair”?

NOPE. I just decided I was ENOUGH right now and WORTHY.

Worthy of love, worthy of compliments, worthy of wearing what makes me feel beautiful, worthy of taking care of my body, my health, worthy of putting ME first.

People will want to know your secret, they will want to know how much struggle and effort it took for you to transform, how much you had to sacrifice.

When all along, you just decided that you are worthy, you are beautiful now, the validation you needed came from within and you gave yourself permission to have it all, to be fully YOU and to show up as woman you really want to be.

Start telling yourself what you really want to hear and stop repeating the comments, the insults, the put downs that were given to you from unhappy, insecure people. You don’t have to keep living their story, you don’t have to allow them to keep you caged. BE YOU. Express who you are, unapologetically and for fuck sake, start telling yourself you are fucking GORGEOUS NOW!!!

If you’re ready to unleash your inner goddess then check out “Hoop Your Way Into Your Skinny Jeans Bootcamp” give yourself permission to achieve the health, the confidence, the body that you really WANT. No excuses!!

Much love,

Carly xo